I want to say I'm pansexual and don't have a preference, because personality means the most to me rather than genitalia/gender + appearance, but I kind of do have a preference; more often than not, I maladaptive daydream about dating a men… so yeah, I have a preference for men, so much so that I kind of feel like I'd be heteroflexible, not multisexual.

But I feel like I AM pansexual… if my partner were to transition or come out as something other than what they started as when we dated, I wouldn't care at all. I fell in love with them for them, not what's in their pants or happening in their brain. I fell in love with their personality and appearance, BUT more often than not I find men attractive, BUT if an attractive person comes on my TikTok FYP, then I find them attractive, regardless of what their gender is. If I find someone attractive, I notice their appearance before their gender/sex. Plus, there are funny videos on TikTok where there’s this really pretty lady, and I find them attractive, but they turn around and take the wig off, and it’s a man. Still doesn’t change anything; I still find them attractive. If they are attractive by my standards (so any and all humans on Earth), then I think they are hot, and I'm attracted to them… I'm so confused…

Would this be pan, omni (because I'm attracted to men more often than not), heteroflex, or something else???? /genq

— Moss (they/them)

Is there a label for someone that experiences a certain form of attraction (aesthetic in this case) but feels repulsed by it?

I don't mind if other people experience aesthetic attraction towards me, however, I really don't like experiencing it myself? I'm an-aesthetic spectrum so I don't experience it a whole lot, but on the occasions I do I feel repulsed by it, I guess? It feels 'wrong' to experience and I'm quick to deny (to myself) that I ever experienced it. this doesn't apply to fictional characters + only applies to real people.

If there isn't a label like this for aesthetic attraction specifically, but there are ones for sexual, romantic, or any other form of attraction, feel free to give me those labels because I could just 'change' them to fit aesthetic attraction instead (:

Hi!!

I would like to ask on behalf of my friend! Because she is too shy to ask it herself and don't want to do it ~

So!

She is afab |not cis, call herself just queer| and mostly likes men. She's more liking guys who look like a little between androgynous and masc type. She is doesn't like too feminine people but too masculine doesn't like too. And she doesn't sure but supposes she can a little like androgynous and some masc females |or any genders maybe|. Quoting her: "Who looks like Ruby Rose probably or a little more masculine"...

Sooo.... If I can ask like this — can you help me to help her? Is she can still straight or something else? Which terms can suit to her?

So I've been struggling with finding my orientation for a while. Right now I label myself as abroromantic (I'm asexual), but lately that term hasn't felt right. So, in real life, I only ever like girls/females. However, I also have giant crushes on fictional male characters, but when I think of actually being in a relationship with a guy, I just cannot imagine that and don't want it. I don't know if this matters, but I have a girlfriend and am transmasc and genderfaun.

If anyone knows a term that might describe me please tell me.

My friend thinks they are Omni/abro but those labels don't feel right for them, could you help us?

I also want to make a virgin pride flag but that feels iffy? like for personal reasons because im proud i havent experienced that stuff. but if that's a no, let me know :P

Abelian refers to an individual on the A-spectrum, either in all types of attraction, or at least one. It is an attraction-type neutral label, an alternative term for ace-spectrum and aro-spectrum, and all other a-spec identities. It is an amari-related identity and formatted to resemble a juvelic term.

Albizian, or abromari refers to an individual whose orientation is changing or fluid. It is an attraction-type neutral label, an alternative term for abrosexual, abroromantic, etc. It is an amari-related identity and formatted to resemble a juvelic term to avoid specification of every type of abro attraction they have.

wants a relationship but experiences little romantic attraction?

Nevermind, i found it! It's cupioromantic, you can delete this post if you want

I thought I was abro + ace but I'm not sure because I don't always feel attraction to anyone but most of the time my gender determines my sexual/romantic orientation

If you have any ideas what this is pls tell me lol

zip zorp

(Flag made by me, Yellows showing the "Amber" Park with the Circle showing A piece missing, showing a Lack of full Acceptance.)

Amberic is an umbrella Term, spanning from Genders to Sexualities. Amber is A Hidden Term for being part of the LGBTQ+, but not able to directly share it due to People they know following them or Parents checking their accounts.

This way, People can add "Amber" or "Amberic" to Their Bio to protect themselves from pushback or Jokes from Others they know IRL.

Amberic's flag exists to simply be able to add it to Lists of flags and better able to match with others, But the flag is not meant to be added to someone's Bio as A Flag makes people raise questions about it.

TL;DR

Amber (Or Amberic) is A Term meant to protect the Gender or Sexuality of Someone so people who are part of the LGBTQ+ community can See they are part of the same Community and make friends like that. It's not meant to be Shown as anything besides A Simple mention in A Bio to farther protect the same people who use it.

This wikis name and exsistance is very intresting

The last week of August every year is Lesbian Visibility Week. During this week is also Lesbian Visibility Day, which is on the 26th.

If you are lesbian, your invisibility potion has run out! I can see you! /j /silly

I'm bringing back the pixel art for this one (if you don't know, I used to do pixel art for each visibility day that came up, for a while)

Usually, I'd do cats, but I wanted to do a person, so I did a person.

Recently, my boyfriend has been questioning his orientation. I've been trying to help him and am still actively doing so. However, we can't seem to find something that fits him well enough.

He describes it as, "liking masculine people, not just men, but also women," and says that he "has a male lean." He also says that he likes femboys as well, but throwing all of that in a single orientation is too complicated.

If someone could help me out here, that would be super awesome!! :3

Add that flag pils

VirexGender: The Freedom to Be Fluid and Authentic https://medium.com/@vgender/virexgender-the-freedom-to-be-fluid-and-authentic-1e5884bad686

I have a cishet female OC named Sunspot. She has a boyfriend named Flare. Flare discovers he's cassgender. He still prefers masculine terms/pronouns. In his own words, "I'm used to he/him, I'm AMAB, and I have no preference otherwise, so I'll just stick to masculine terms and pronouns."

Since her boyfriend is cassgender, Sunspot would like to know if she's still technically straight, or if there's a more accurate term.

Sunspot's words: "I don't like girls, I know that much. I like boys, and apparently neutral genders too? Idk; I haven't met a lot of nonbinary people. But I definitely like Flare! He's my boyfriend!"

I came up with a 7 stripe flag because I was going to make a bracelet with the colors for my friend. The arrangement came out this way

https://orientation.fandom.com/f/p/4400000000000320220

Heterosomatic is the exclusive attraction to the opposite sex. It is an umbrella term that encompasses anyone who is only attracted to the opposite sex.

Homosomatic is the exclusive attraction to the same sex. It is an umbrella term that encompasses anyone who is only attracted to the same sex.

Androsomatic is the exclusive attraction to biological males, AMAB individuals, people with XY chromosomes, and people of the male sex. It is a non-transphobic/non-genitalist alternative to the former definition of androsexual.

Gynesomatic is the exclusive attraction to biological females, AFAB individuals, people with XX chromosomes, and people of the female sex. It is a non-transphobic/non-genitalist alternative to the former definition of gynesexual.

Lesbisomatic defines a biological female/AFAB who is exclusively attracted to other biological females/AFAB individuals.

Darcisomatic describes a biological male/AMAB who is exclusively attracted to biological females/AFAB individuals

Bennedomatic describes a biological female/AFAB who is exclusively attracted to biological males/AMAB individuals

Vincisomatic defines a biological male/AMAB who is exclusively attracted to other biological males/AMAB individuals.

Bisomatic is the exclusive attraction to biological females and biological males

Omnisomatic is the attraction to all sexes, allowing for the possibility of a preference. Unlike bisomatic, this specifically includes intersex people.

Pansomatic is the attraction to any sex without preference, also known as not seeing someone's sex as important to one's orientation.

Lesbigenderal defines a woman attracted exclusively to other women

Vincigenderal defines a man attracted exclusively to other men

Darcigenderal defines a man who is exclusively attracted to women

Bennegenderal defines a woman who is exclusively attracted to men

Bigenderal is the exclusive attraction to men and women. It specifically allows for a gender preference

Omnigenderal is the attraction to all genders. It specifically allows for a gender preference

Polygenderal is the attraction to many genders, but not all. It specifically allows for a gender preference

Pangenderal is the attraction to any gender. It does not include a gender preference, instead not seeing gender as a component for their attraction

Androgenderal is an exclusive attraction to men or the people of the male gender

Gynegenderal is an exclusive attraction to women or the people of the female gender

Heterogenderal is the exclusive attraction to the opposite gender

Homogenderal is the exclusive attraction to the same gender

Lmk if you have any requests, I plan on making sapphigenderal and achilligenderal sometime soon!