Heteromantic

I want to say I'm pansexual and don't have a preference, because personality means the most to me rather than genitalia/gender + appearance, but I kind of do have a preference; more often than not, I maladaptive daydream about dating a men… so yeah, I have a preference for men, so much so that I kind of feel like I'd be heteroflexible, not multisexual.

But I feel like I AM pansexual… if my partner were to transition or come out as something other than what they started as when we dated, I wouldn't care at all. I fell in love with them for them, not what's in their pants or happening in their brain. I fell in love with their personality and appearance, BUT more often than not I find men attractive, BUT if an attractive person comes on my TikTok FYP, then I find them attractive, regardless of what their gender is. If I find someone attractive, I notice their appearance before their gender/sex. Plus, there are funny videos on TikTok where there’s this really pretty lady, and I find them attractive, but they turn around and take the wig off, and it’s a man. Still doesn’t change anything; I still find them attractive. If they are attractive by my standards (so any and all humans on Earth), then I think they are hot, and I'm attracted to them… I'm so confused…

Would this be pan, omni (because I'm attracted to men more often than not), heteroflex, or something else???? /genq

— Moss (they/them)

I have a cishet female OC named Sunspot. She has a boyfriend named Flare. Flare discovers he's cassgender. He still prefers masculine terms/pronouns. In his own words, "I'm used to he/him, I'm AMAB, and I have no preference otherwise, so I'll just stick to masculine terms and pronouns."

Since her boyfriend is cassgender, Sunspot would like to know if she's still technically straight, or if there's a more accurate term.

Sunspot's words: "I don't like girls, I know that much. I like boys, and apparently neutral genders too? Idk; I haven't met a lot of nonbinary people. But I definitely like Flare! He's my boyfriend!"

I don't think that I'm queer. I think I was just confused and looking for something to control when I had nothing in my life I could control. I'm just a tomboy who supports my fellow sisters for being pretty and I'm attracted to guys but just haven't found the right one yet because all the guys I've dated are jerks and my social anxiety gets in the way. I mean, I’ve really been into guys for the last couple days now. Maybe the internet just influenced me somehow. Maybe I’m just a ‘high level’ tomboy, I like boys clothes, and being ‘one of the boys’. Maybe I’m just a pick me girl. I don’t know. I don’t know who I am anymore.

I’m Yumi, heterosexual and hetromantic