Pansexual

What's the difference between bisexual and pansexual?

This doesn't bother me at all. I don't really care that it is starting hormone replacement therapy. That doesn't change how I feel about it.

Does that make me panromantic?

Because I don't care it uses it/its pronouns, I don't care it is agender, I don't care that it is transgender (female to male), I don't care that it is starting hormone replacement therapy, but more often than not, I like male. So I can't be panromantic, right? Because panromantic is "emotional and romantic attraction to others regardless of their gender and sex", but more often than not I like males, but at the same time, I do not care what you are or what's in your pants, as long as you aren't an asshat of a person I'll be attracted to you, but if there was a lineup of people I'd pick a male or male presenting person despite the fact I find everyone attractive regardless of what they are or present as.

Maybe it fits me, because my attraction to males is less about their gender and sex and more about the role they take on in the relationship, which is typically dominant.

But pansexual/panromantic is usually about EQUAL attraction across all genders and sexes, but my attraction to different genders and sexes is different…

The best I can describe it is that sometimes I like women, sometimes I like men, sometimes I like people under the non-binary umbrella, but more often than not I like men, mainly because of the relationship dynamic. Men and males (of any gender) are typically more dominant and rough, and so I take on a more submissive and bubbly dynamic myself, and with women and females (of any gender), they are much softer and delicate, so I take on a dominant role myself. That doesn't NECESSARILY sound equal to me, but maybe that's an armory thing and not an attraction thing??? I don't know, man…

— Mauze (she/her + they/them)

I want to say I'm pansexual and don't have a preference, because personality means the most to me rather than genitalia/gender + appearance, but I kind of do have a preference; more often than not, I maladaptive daydream about dating a men… so yeah, I have a preference for men, so much so that I kind of feel like I'd be heteroflexible, not multisexual.

But I feel like I AM pansexual… if my partner were to transition or come out as something other than what they started as when we dated, I wouldn't care at all. I fell in love with them for them, not what's in their pants or happening in their brain. I fell in love with their personality and appearance, BUT more often than not I find men attractive, BUT if an attractive person comes on my TikTok FYP, then I find them attractive, regardless of what their gender is. If I find someone attractive, I notice their appearance before their gender/sex. Plus, there are funny videos on TikTok where there’s this really pretty lady, and I find them attractive, but they turn around and take the wig off, and it’s a man. Still doesn’t change anything; I still find them attractive. If they are attractive by my standards (so any and all humans on Earth), then I think they are hot, and I'm attracted to them… I'm so confused…

Would this be pan, omni (because I'm attracted to men more often than not), heteroflex, or something else???? /genq

— Moss (they/them)

Ok so I'm pan and aro but I recently found out I'm also aegosexual? does this revoke my pan identity cuz I'm under the aroace umbrella and just prefer havin buds or am I just overthinking it?? help???