Obsidian refers to refers to an individual who has never had consensual or authentic sex before. Non-queer people can use it but the term was created with ace-spec individuals in mind as a description for people who are proud of their virginity, but are uncomfortable with the word. In queer usage, it is often linked with a lack of intercourse because of being closeted or not finding someone of the same gender to share it with.
It was made to show that 'virgin' isn't an insult to certain people who are proud of it, otherwise an attempt of an emerging term made to overwrite the word 'virgin' and its negative history as well as connotations.
Obsidian flag
Obsidian vincian
Obsidian lesbian
Obsidian asexual
Obsidian queer
Reclaimed virgin flag, or felsic
Hetero would be included under the word for different. Trying to find a term that encompasses a nblm or a wlnb relationship for example. (I don't mean literally the word for it lol, just trying to find the different gender version of homo and hetero.)
I know that hetero actually translates to different, but it now commonly refers to opposite in orientation context.
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Probably gonna have to use https://lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/LGBTQIA%2B_Wiki to find this one.
User gender doesn't matter but if you end up finding a gendered one then please feel free to send it anyway!
Thank you so much for the effort! I might end up coining it if i have time but these are also great!!
Somewhat similar novosexual and flexisexual, except your own gender doesn't change.
I also want to make a virgin pride flag but that feels iffy? like for personal reasons because im proud i havent experienced that stuff. but if that's a no, let me know :P
Abelian refers to an individual on the A-spectrum, either in all types of attraction, or at least one. It is an attraction-type neutral label, an alternative term for ace-spectrum and aro-spectrum, and all other a-spec identities. It is an amari-related identity and formatted to resemble a juvelic term.
Albizian, or abromari refers to an individual whose orientation is changing or fluid. It is an attraction-type neutral label, an alternative term for abrosexual, abroromantic, etc. It is an amari-related identity and formatted to resemble a juvelic term to avoid specification of every type of abro attraction they have.
Theres a high chance it probably was XDD ive been browsing aroace labels as soon as i got home, it was only a matter of time until i found it. didnt think itd happen so fast lol
wants a relationship but experiences little romantic attraction?
Nevermind, i found it! It's cupioromantic, you can delete this post if you want
Thank youuu, I colordropped from the original actually
I came up with a 7 stripe flag because I was going to make a bracelet with the colors for my friend. The arrangement came out this way
https://orientation.fandom.com/f/p/4400000000000320220
Heterosomatic is the exclusive attraction to the opposite sex. It is an umbrella term that encompasses anyone who is only attracted to the opposite sex.
Homosomatic is the exclusive attraction to the same sex. It is an umbrella term that encompasses anyone who is only attracted to the same sex.
Androsomatic is the exclusive attraction to biological males, AMAB individuals, people with XY chromosomes, and people of the male sex. It is a non-transphobic/non-genitalist alternative to the former definition of androsexual.
Gynesomatic is the exclusive attraction to biological females, AFAB individuals, people with XX chromosomes, and people of the female sex. It is a non-transphobic/non-genitalist alternative to the former definition of gynesexual.
Lesbisomatic defines a biological female/AFAB who is exclusively attracted to other biological females/AFAB individuals.
Darcisomatic describes a biological male/AMAB who is exclusively attracted to biological females/AFAB individuals
Bennedomatic describes a biological female/AFAB who is exclusively attracted to biological males/AMAB individuals
Vincisomatic defines a biological male/AMAB who is exclusively attracted to other biological males/AMAB individuals.
Bisomatic is the exclusive attraction to biological females and biological males
Omnisomatic is the attraction to all sexes, allowing for the possibility of a preference. Unlike bisomatic, this specifically includes intersex people.
Pansomatic is the attraction to any sex without preference, also known as not seeing someone's sex as important to one's orientation.
Lesbigenderal defines a woman attracted exclusively to other women
Vincigenderal defines a man attracted exclusively to other men
Darcigenderal defines a man who is exclusively attracted to women
Bennegenderal defines a woman who is exclusively attracted to men
Bigenderal is the exclusive attraction to men and women. It specifically allows for a gender preference
Omnigenderal is the attraction to all genders. It specifically allows for a gender preference
Polygenderal is the attraction to many genders, but not all. It specifically allows for a gender preference
Pangenderal is the attraction to any gender. It does not include a gender preference, instead not seeing gender as a component for their attraction
Androgenderal is an exclusive attraction to men or the people of the male gender
Gynegenderal is an exclusive attraction to women or the people of the female gender
Heterogenderal is the exclusive attraction to the opposite gender
Homogenderal is the exclusive attraction to the same gender
Lmk if you have any requests, I plan on making sapphigenderal and achilligenderal sometime soon!
Yes!!! Thank you so much
An A-spec identity
Feels sexual attraction and can desire sexual actions, but does not want sexual pleasure inflicted on themself (or just doesnt want that kind of touching on themself), but will advance sexually on someone else
Similar to lithosexual maybe
Can be exclusive or non-exclusive. And honestly it doesnt have to describe a man it could be gender neutral also
I know theres litian, is there another word for it thats a "sexual" or "romantic" suffix?
Another example is a
Omnigenderal
Achilleasexual
Androsomatic
This person is attracted to all genders, but has an achillean preference (they are mainly sexually attracted to men) and they are only sexually attracted to AMABS and people with male bodies etc other synonyms
Yep! It would be romantic. So the suffix genderal is used to define a gender attraction, and is also used to avoid defining a sexual or a romantic attraction
For example:
Omnigenderal panromantic bisexual lesbisomatic. This would mean that this person is attracted to all genders with a preference (type of attraction isnt specified), is romantically attracted to anyone, but is only sexually attracted to men and women. And they are only attracted to other biological females, being one themself.
So they could only be attracted sexually to transmascs, cis women, etc. but they are romantically attracted to anyone. The omni could be platonic. If they werent panromantic, the -genderal could also be defining a romantic preference towards a specific gender, even if theyre multiromantic
Let me know if this doesn't make sense, i'm so sorry if it doesn't lol. Dont be afraid to ask questions